Too Sad to Write Today

I'm too sad to write today. My characters will need to wait. It wasn't a bad day. The sun was shining hot and bright, warming my face on this beautiful fall afternoon. The dogs were well behaved. My horse's training moved in a positive forward direction, and I even rode for a bit in the back pasture. Yesterday's workout was challenging, but today my body wasn't overly sore or hurting. Nothing was wrong. Nothing was bad.

Yet, coming in from the pasture, my cheeks burnished with autumn sunshine, I felt the wave washing over me. I tried to avoid it. I did. I distracted myself with Facebook. I ate a healthy dinner. I drank my icy cold water. I walked outside. The cloud followed along, shadowing my attempts. There is no way to escape, because...

I miss my son. I miss his smile. I miss raking leaves with him on days just like today. I miss his dirty socks on the couch and his constant cleansing of the pantry. I miss his silly faces and his beautiful smile and his little ears and his broadening shoulders.

It is a perfectly lovely October day, and I am supposed to write every day; but, I'm too sad to write today. My characters will have to wait while I sigh and give in to inevitable tears. They will be there for me tomorrow, because I'm too sad to write today.

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  1. Karen D. BotaOctober 9, 2019 at 12:55 AM

    Glad you are taking care of yourself and doing what YOU need to do. ❤️

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